PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT | We make our choices in our life. A baby who is born today in 2019 will make its own choices and will live his part of life. So, the personality which is developed, we ourselves or the environment or our education centers or the selected friendships develop this personality. So, we are actually made by our own choices or we are people spoiled by our choices. So, personality doesn’t get developed automatically.
Let me tell you with very responsibility that when you make the habit of these 3 things in your life, your personality will start developing.
Role of Personality Development in Success
Don’t Wait for Time
Start doing what you want to do. Don’t wait for a specific or reasonable time to start because that specific moment or time never comes. We have to create such moments, so when thinking is in the process in your mind, you have a dream in your eyes, start doing. When you start doing something, then circumstances will be created automatically, and God will help you in this.
We don’t try actually and wait for some moment to start, and that moment doesn’t occur 9 out of 10 times. So, what here is for you that when you start thinking of doing something, then don’t stop and wait, instead start doing and implementing it.
Influence of FOCUS In Personality Development
You cannot generate results until you focus and concentrate on something. Personality only gets developed when complete focus and concentration is developed in ourselves. If we offer prayers without focus and concentration, you can well imagine the results.
So, in your life, whenever you want to do something, start it without waiting and secondly keep the focus on that. When you have complete focus on your work, you’ll have an interest in that work and then you’ll start getting the desired results.
Haste Makes Waste
Another thing is that people become a victim of haste. There is a popular saying that haste makes waste. When you rush in hurry, you actually start avoiding many small aspects and skip many important things. Many gaps and missing left therebetween and you have to pay for that sooner or later in your life.
So, it’s important for personality development that when you start some work, focus on it and continue it step by step, in a logical way. Because if you leave some steps today, you’ll be in trouble in future and you probably would say that “would that I had completed my work in a proper way, so I wouldn’t be in trouble today.”
There is a popular saying “A stitch in time saves nine” which means that if you sort out a problem immediately, it may save extra work later. So, if you see a thing which you can do better today but you don’t do that, it’ll become trouble in future for you and it’ll be very problematic for you to handle it that time.
Your personality serves you through your entire life and it plays a vital role in your success. This developed personality will help you in any kind of circumstances in your life. And what exactly develope your personality? It’s your choices which developed your personality, so make your choices wisely.
So, when you progress in your life with an intention, your personality starts developing. Personality isn’t a built-in feature; the only need is to develop it. We don’t try actually and want to live in the current situation, either we get to indulge in the future or stuck in our past because of which our present time or moment is wasted. And then what happens, the coming tomorrow becomes our today. When it becomes our today, we are left empty handed and then we regret that would that we had worked hard in the past.
So, this is the time, start today, work hard and celebrate these little moments of joys. When you start celebrating in your life, you get in the condition of thankfulness. Live in the present moment, get a lesson from past, keep an eye in the future and to work hard in the present moment and avoid shortcuts. Then you’ll have your own stories to share with the people with your tear ones and loved ones.
Have dreams in a realistic way and believe in yourself. Until you don’t believe that you can do this, you can’t do this actually.
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